Eight signs your adult children are home for good

Mar 14, 2015
People in their twenties and thirties have been hit hard by the economic downturn, suffering a fall in wages and employment. Many are struggling to take the first step on to the property ladder. Thirty-year-old Phillippa Stewart has just moved back in with her parents via university, a stint in the Far East and a year-long, 10,000-mile cycle ride from Malaysia to Britain. "Turning 30 is depressing enough. Moving back in with your sixtysomething parents really takes the biscuit. Or rather, it’s me pilfering the biscuits and Mum berating me for it.” Read Phillippa's story in The Telegraph. If you think your adult offspring are finally independent, think again. Here are eight signs that they're back to stay: 1. Their favourite cereal is back in the cupboard. 2. You find your fridge has been rearranged. 3. Your dining room, living room and kitchen have all become prime “office space”. 4. You’ve been persuaded to upgrade your computer because the old one is “too slow”. 5. They’re back on the car insurance — and the car’s gone. 6. Your house is becoming a crash pad for their friends looking for a weekend escape. 7. Your romantic breaks for two for the year are marked in their calendar. 8. They’ve asked whether or not you’re expecting rent.
Failure to Launch Generally speaking, the 'boomerang generation' is just looking for a temporary retreat while figuring out their next step. To maintain a healthy relationship with your adult child, consider these tips: 1. Trust your adult children to make wise choices, even if they sometimes don't. They'll eventually figure things out. Didn't you learn much the same way? 2. Resist the impulse to give advice unless it's asked for. That's easier when your children are off your radar. When they're under your roof it's much more difficult. 3. Communication is key so agree a regular time to discuss issues, clarify expectations, or just to clear the air. 4. Give each other some space. We all have bad days. Three or more adults living in one house is a challenge whether you're related or not.
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